Potty Training – Keys to a Successful Experience For Child and Parent

October 23rd, 2009 Filed Under Baby Potty Training

Being a first time father has its precious moments. Everyone at some point that has a little one goes through potty training. My daughter, bless her heart, mimicked everything she saw, right down to using the potty. Not having to use a lot of imagination, you should get a clear picture of what I am referring to. She decided that since Daddy stood at the toilet to potty, that is how she would do it too!! What I have learned is it is not as easy as pointing to the bathroom and expecting instant results. Here are some pointers for parents out there fully immersed in the act of potty training.

Unfortunately, not all toddlers are created equal. Training your toddler is not going to be the same as your next door neighbor or even similar to your older child’s potty training. There really is no magic number to when things will “click”, so your patience is a number one priority. If you are calm and positive about the whole potty experience, it will help your chances for success.

Since toddlers are so influenced by their surroundings, it is a great idea to model proper procedures for potty training. Going through the motions with a favorite stuffed doll or animal – from sitting down to washing their hands after they are done – will help immensely. Reward the stuffed animal just as you will reward your toddler. With your toddler, share in the celebration of a successful potty trip for their stuffed toy. Once they view going to the bathroom as a positive experience, how can they not want to do it?

Stress can play a huge part in training your toddler as well. Sometimes the atmosphere around the home is not conducive to potty training. Stresses in and around the home might include illness, a new environment, or the arrival of a newborn. Only once the stresses are at a minimum, and your toddler can focus, is potty training going to be successful.